Love symptoms are known to everyone: pensiveness in thoughts, strangeness of behaviour, mad confidence that all Universe spins round the unique person and that anybody never had before similar feeling.
But until recently the science did not wish to have with it anything the general. Serious scientists simply believed that love - the fruit of the imagination which has sprouted in brains of people of many centuries back when the civilisation has given enough leisure for the romantic nonsense immortalised by poets and writers, musicians.
When people with scientific degrees nevertheless have paid to it attention, it was found out that love at all nonsense and not nonsense, and a phenomenon generated by evolution of the nature, biological and chemical processes. That at first sight seemed unreasonable and uncontrollable behaviour of the person, actually is the major element in system of natural powers - the vital mechanism helping mankind to survive, struggle for the future and to breed many thousand years.
Hardly people from four finitenesses have risen on two, it presented possibility to make out each other in all beauty. Unlike animals, people have opened for themselves a new sex position - face to face, being in embraces each other. Appearance began to play the important role.
Chemical processes in a human body have transformed sex into a romantic adventure. Enamoured feel drugged. So it also is: they are overflowed simply by a stream of chemical substances, researchers explain. The meeting of sights, a contact of hands, a smell of perfume are fixed by a brain, the signal is transferred on nervous cages and arrives in blood. The result is known: cheeks redden, palms sweat, breath becomes frequent. If the love and suspiciously reminds stress, anything surprising: chemical ways are identical.
The enamoured runs into euphoria, and in it too there is nothing surprising, considering that many chemical substances set in motion, are included into the category амфетаминов, including such strong, as dopamin and feniletilamin. Feniletilamin forces you to smile idiotically, hardly you see someone who very much is pleasant to you.
But feniletiamin the dope is not eternal - the fact which is proving to be true with life experience which says to us that the passionate romantic love is always rapid. The human body gradually gets used to feniletiamin, the increasing and big dose is required to cause a love dope. And after a while the organism becomes unreceptive to this substance. Cancellation of chemical substances means the end of mad passion, and for many and the end of relations.
And still many novels have this time. What forces people to remain together? Other set of chemical substances! Long presence of the partner influences manufacture in a brain endorfin's. Unlike amfetomin's they operate soothingly. Natural soothing, endorfin's give to partners feeling of safety, the world and calmness. That is why we so awfully feel, when us throw favourite or they die, we do not receive the daily share of a calming drug …
Chemical processes are capable to explain, why we love. But why we choose someone from millions one?
In an early stage of love own sensation which you receive from relations with the favourite person is pleasant; in a mature stage you love the person such what it is.
Such is a scientific view on love. Are satisfied? Most likely, no. At heart we all the same hope that the love never will open to all of us of the secrets …
So it has turned out that you have romantic feeling at once to two men. You it too are not indifferent. But long so cannot proceed. Give we will understand as to make a correct choice and not to be mistaken. Probably, having listened to our councils, you will understand, who from them is the man of your life.
