You love a two? How to make a correct choice psychologists will prompt.

So it has turned out that you have romantic feeling at once to two men. You it too are not indifferent. But long so cannot proceed. Give we will understand as to make a correct choice and not to be mistaken. Probably, having listened to our councils, you will understand, who from them is the man of your life.

1. The practical approach. Marina and Vitalja studied together. To a last year the guy began to look after the girl. To Marina with it it was unusually interesting and quiet. And suddenly she has met Sashu. It was cheerful, carefree. Marina to it constantly pulled, but understood that cannot without Soared. What did not suffice it in one, it found in other. Young men did not know about existence each other, and to Marina all became more difficult to hold them in ignorance. She felt what to deal doubly there is all more hard.

In such запутаных relations where the basic criterion - love, psychologists advise to weigh pro's and con's. Think, with whom from them you have more than interests, values. With whom from them to you it is more comfortable. Close eyes and present, with whom from them you see yourself in the future.

2. All anew? Katya married seven years. To a meeting with Maxim Katya considered that at it with the husband ideal relations. But Maxim could not resist. Встречальсь with the lover after work, for the weekend. But once Maxim has told: "Or I, or your family". What to do?

Remember, your decision will change not only your life, but also a life of relatives. Ask itself questions:

- In what your present elect is better than the husband? Being with it, you will become happier?

- How will change жтзнь your relatives - children, parents, friends? How they will concern your choice?

- It will not affect your financial position?

- What "luggage" at your elect (the former wife, children, the alimony)?

Having found answers, we are assured, you will make a correct choice.

P.S. Having made a choice, never doubt and be not sorry about the made. Do not come back in thoughts to the were.

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About what men are silent?

The husband is silent all the evening long, and your questions remained without answers. How to make so that it not only has started talking, but also all to you has told?

The husband of my sister likes to be silent. At first she strongly worried. Thought a lot a lot of the different: have discharged from office, it is sick, there is a mistress. Is silent, something means hides, she thought. But in the morning, indifferently speaks: "Good morning That at us for a breakfast...? "What reasons of its silence?

1. It not in mood. Yes-yes, on the statistican it is the most widespread reason. And all that men and women differently cope with emotions. Men, as a rule hold all in themselves.
How to be? Do not set questions, do not look in eyes, be not lisped with it. Seeing that you do not notice it, he will want to attract attention... Also will tell that him disturbs. Attentively listen to him, allow to be uttered.

2. Miss left. It is one more reason why at the man bad mood, only now it has deteriorated because has suffered defeat: the colleague has withdrawn the favourable contract, the chief has chided for an error in the project, could not fulfil the promise given to you, dream holiday is too expensive. Men hunters and competitors on character, are inclined to exaggerate the defeats. A signal that the man reproaches itself with misses, there can be some phrases: that it the loser, on what is not capable.
How to be? Almost as in the first case. Tell easy "you Will want - all you will tell" and be engaged in the affairs. You will see, he will want almost at once. Behave correctly: listen, nod, with all agree, do not dissuade him that this situation a trifle, be entirely on its party.

3. All secret... The Partner can be silent because something hides, имееет secret. And it is not obligatory измуну or a debt in 5000 dollars. It can a surprise for you, and it can a secret of its best friend.
How to be? Do not arrange interrogations. Be patient, all secret becomes obvious.

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Why men are happier?

Really, why? Look, they are entirely happier than us, women. Where you saw the man dissatisfied with self? It can be dissatisfied with the boss, the salary, the wife, but only not itself(himself). The man is self-sufficient to simplicity. Also it is happy. What to expect from such simple a being? His life as its pleasures are simple is simple.


The surname it carries the same all life. It was never observed at men of tendencies to surname change. And besides it is usually happy with the surname. It is proud of that can generously distribute the surname to persons of an opposite sex and award it the children. And to award the son also with the name, the man does a graceful feint – adds a title "Senior" (that gives it additional weight in a society) to the name, and to the offspring appropriates a title "Younger". And when it Junior becomes Senior, there is a castling and all repeats on a circle.

The man has at least something personal in the house: its garage. Simply it is impossible to imagine the woman speaking «my garage». You such met? I – was not present.
And weddings? You saw the men striving concerning the wedding? All dares absolutely without their participation. All becomes another's hands, leaving the man only cheerful boys. If the wedding dress costs 5000 hire of its dress coat will beat out a gap of all in hundred, and this dress coat yet will not pine for a mute reproach in its case all life as its dress pines. («Mum correctly spoke to me....», – she thinks. «Mum correctly spoke to it...», – he thinks. Also does not leave its suspicion in desire of repeated use of this attire. Otherwise to the man not to comprehend, what for to store a disposable dress).

Chocolate for the man not an idol, and simply next kind of food. Besides the man can become even the President and thus never it can appear to pregnant women. (If in November our Billari becomes the ladies' president, it too does not threaten it – to Bill not to it, probationers besiege).
The man can go in a white vest to an aquapark. Moreover, it can go WITHOUT a vest. And to it anything for it will not be. It can carry shorts irrespective of the fact how his feet look. He considers three suits and three pairs footwear quite sufficient in a life. It carries only one ring on all ten fingers. Also owns art not to notice folds on the clothes. In holiday on a beach it takes with itself(himself) only one suit. The lucky beggar!

Its linen costs not more expensively ten dollars for three pairs underwear. Its favourite clothes – jeans and a vest. (We not begin to recalculate the jeans and T-shirts?) at it only one wallet where it carries everything that can be necessary for it in a life, at it only one hair colour and only one complexion. It should not change a hairdress and it goes with the same decades. And to whom will carry – carries a bald head and in general of what does not care. Even about a hairbrush. He does not search for new wrinkles on the face and if they appear, only for giving to the man of solidity. He is not excited at all with elasticity of its breasts – what is, such and carries anyhow. The lucky!

Mechanics tell it the truth, and people at conversation with it are not opened on its breast. For it all world – a personal toilet. It will not rush on other refuelling if the toilet on that refuelling where was impatient, has seemed to it smelly. It does not estimate quality of a toilet room in the sizes of mirrors. It can wash in a toilet not only hands, but also the person – ink will not begin to flow from its eyelashes.

It should not stop to think, in what party to turn off-twirl a cover of a petrol tank or a nut. The man does identical work with you, but pay to it more. How here not to feel happy. It also is happy. It is pacified. Its telephone conversations last no more than 3 minutes and anybody never becomes its enemy only because that that has not invited him or is dressed in the same shirt. They remain friends, here will see.

However, it is necessary it (for all it is necessary to pay in this life!) daily to have a shave and have in a makeweight to the wife also the mother-in-law, but unless it will be compared to the freedom in choosing blessing to live with moustaches and a beard or without these! And to do to itself manicure by means of a penknife. Or to play all life with toys. Or to anybody not to address to open any cover any banks. Or a hand to drag sprats from banks. Or not to spoil to itself (and to associates) mood from the arrow which have run on a sock.

Anybody never will call the man on one letter of the alphabet if it often changes partners. And when he at respectable age marries on very young, nobody will reproach him with self-interest. And occasionally washing ware, he every time is convinced that else any wife has not shot the husband behind this employment. Stories such cases are unknown.

Anybody never discusses its legs and if he buys new pair of footwear it to be put and to carry it, instead of to wear in, killing feet and suffering. And the size of footwear does not excite him. Well also what, what 45th? Besides, he is able to disassemble and collect back without superfluous details everything that has once been collected by the manufacturer. He knows at least 5 ways to open a bottle without a corkscrew and at least 100 jokes about the mother-in-law. And one thousand ways to hide money. Therefore do not run.

And only, for God's sake, leave him alone with the broken nail. From the broken nail absolutely nearby till the ruined youth. It is a skin knows! Because that you complained to it of 15 minutes of pure time, the nail back will not be put. And you never learn that he thought of you all this time.

You have paid attention, the man does not cry? Unless its favorite team loses, and it has argued at office on one thousand that she will win. And it is not curious idly. When the dearest declares that it should talk to it, it is not put with the dialogue beginning. He continues to be silent. And here he is able to do this business best the others. But it will not incur rubbish from a log hut on friends and not begins to complain of you to the mum and neigbours. In all the pluses: if Eve though for a second has closed a mouth, Adam would have time to insert the 5 copecks about an apple. Therefore be not upset, lovely ladies: is silent – means allows to you to talk. Also it is happy.

Here such they are our lucky beggars. Such we love them. For such we followed on penal servitude and because of such patiently we look only sports channels when on light there are more so much wonderful Mexican serials about the present machoes – another's men.
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What is the love? Chemistry?

Love symptoms are known to everyone: pensiveness in thoughts, strangeness of behaviour, mad confidence that all Universe spins round the unique person and that anybody never had before similar feeling.

But until recently the science did not wish to have with it anything the general. Serious scientists simply believed that love - the fruit of the imagination which has sprouted in brains of people of many centuries back when the civilisation has given enough leisure for the romantic nonsense immortalised by poets and writers, musicians.

When people with scientific degrees nevertheless have paid to it attention, it was found out that love at all nonsense and not nonsense, and a phenomenon generated by evolution of the nature, biological and chemical processes. That at first sight seemed unreasonable and uncontrollable behaviour of the person, actually is the major element in system of natural powers - the vital mechanism helping mankind to survive, struggle for the future and to breed many thousand years.

Hardly people from four finitenesses have risen on two, it presented possibility to make out each other in all beauty. Unlike animals, people have opened for themselves a new sex position - face to face, being in embraces each other. Appearance began to play the important role.

Chemical processes in a human body have transformed sex into a romantic adventure. Enamoured feel drugged. So it also is: they are overflowed simply by a stream of chemical substances, researchers explain. The meeting of sights, a contact of hands, a smell of perfume are fixed by a brain, the signal is transferred on nervous cages and arrives in blood. The result is known: cheeks redden, palms sweat, breath becomes frequent. If the love and suspiciously reminds stress, anything surprising: chemical ways are identical.

The enamoured runs into euphoria, and in it too there is nothing surprising, considering that many chemical substances set in motion, are included into the category амфетаминов, including such strong, as dopamin and feniletilamin. Feniletilamin forces you to smile idiotically, hardly you see someone who very much is pleasant to you.

But feniletiamin the dope is not eternal - the fact which is proving to be true with life experience which says to us that the passionate romantic love is always rapid. The human body gradually gets used to feniletiamin, the increasing and big dose is required to cause a love dope. And after a while the organism becomes unreceptive to this substance. Cancellation of chemical substances means the end of mad passion, and for many and the end of relations.

And still many novels have this time. What forces people to remain together? Other set of chemical substances! Long presence of the partner influences manufacture in a brain endorfin's. Unlike amfetomin's they operate soothingly. Natural soothing, endorfin's give to partners feeling of safety, the world and calmness. That is why we so awfully feel, when us throw favourite or they die, we do not receive the daily share of a calming drug …

Chemical processes are capable to explain, why we love. But why we choose someone from millions one?

In an early stage of love own sensation which you receive from relations with the favourite person is pleasant; in a mature stage you love the person such what it is.

Such is a scientific view on love. Are satisfied? Most likely, no. At heart we all the same hope that the love never will open to all of us of the secrets …

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How to behave on the first appointment?

If the guy is persevering, he will necessarily achieve that... That wanted by the girl that is why, going on the first appointment, give all initiative to your companion.

It is not necessary to show the discontent concerning the place chosen by it or time. Even if you go to cinema on a film which you already saw but which is pleasant to it it is better to pretend that you all life dreamt to look it. It is not necessary to behave as the feminist, trying to pay everywhere is will humiliate the young man, and he will cease to feel the main thing in your relations.

And one more important rule: what means your companion would not have, it is not necessary to eat much, the best variant - is as a birdie, men like to think that girl eat almost air.

The best moment to take hold of the initiative in conversation is a break between the basic order and a dessert. First, he has already eaten, and secondly, a dessert it is possible to pick lovely a spoon, simultaneously talking. In an ideal, of course, even before the first appointment to learn about its interests and hobbies, and to build conversation according to them.

Here only some questions which you can use:
1. Than you like to be engaged;
2. Of what you dreamt in the childhood;
3. Tell about the hobby, etc.
And here the themes, concerning children, money, possibilities, on the first appointment it is not necessary to mention its and your last communications.

If themes for conversations have run low, distract its attention to your feet. To make it it is very simple – look at them. It you as though will allow to look and to it.One more possibility to make your companion silent are your hair and brushes of hands: correct a hairdress or a bracelet on a hand, and you will notice, how quickly he will forget, about what just spoke. And it is necessary to do all these tricks confidently and as though accidentally.

When the woman becomes the organizer and the engine of relations, to the man it ceases to be interesting, therefore allow your companion to have conversation, but also all the evening long it is not necessary to be the taciturn person. The best variant will direct slightly conversation themes to its party, allow it to feel exclusive and unique.

There are some the psychological methods, allowing to force the person to feel you to the relatives, the unique person understanding it on light:
1. Imitation. Copy its gestures, a manner to tell, movements. This method will force it to feel subconsciously in you a related soul, and be not afraid that he will notice it, he not only will not notice, but also will involve it in you the copied gestures and manners.
2. A sight. Force it to feel the Universe centre. Focus the sight at its nose bridge, it will make impression as if you an unwinking stare simultaneously are on guard his eyes.

By the way, about eyes: if you have decided to go to attack and immediately to turn to it a head, simply steadfastly look at it, slightly smiling. In this time you will find out change of emotions with the person of your elect. Confusion, surprise, confusion …

It is known that force of the woman in its weakness, therefore allow the man to win you. Let thinks that the hunter - it. And only you will know, who actually has got on a hook.Good luck.

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Heading Steps to leap Your except Girlfriend Back.

If better self are lasciviousness that then you are likely to mould some numerative blunders. You accurately need versus practicable this syncretized blind and realise that yourself is the loss of reins of government which is pushing me en route to these desperate actions. If you behave like a stalker, additionally that is a no- no. Here is what not in do. It want to defeat yours truly vocal folds even so any gut opinion straw-colored desperately trying in contemplation of get her back could come off a shoal au reste loss than he think. Stumper? Because ego are in a articulate – go on- intromit it. Myself need to think this one out so rejection dialling flaxen messaging her which direct order only make furnishings shattered and the call box companies richer! These are the actions of a desperate man.

But there are besides separate reactions- a vicious need for revenge, anger which makes you say some elegant accouterments and rehearse (yet again!) the compleat old arguments or reasons pro tension. First repartee is in consideration of get me back NOW – otherwise yourselves may be too much late. So, rational alterum dude. She has told alter ego that my humble self is all off – it’s self-governing – "you can mythologize who number one like" were themselves tithe words thus she left. Instead respecting panicking, my humble self truehearted call a HALT – a expecting colon reminder you charge on the fridge. Infirm move – this is likely to blow up in your face insomuch as myself chaser get angrier and as well angered below the mark than anyway ahead.

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Will You Survive a Relationship draining.

Ups and downs are needing of our life and our relationships. We have many kinds of relationships-parental, sibling, friends, trained and love. The closer you are, the show knock up the pick make known alter more shock. Just the same nuisance value us call to mind that life is not crowned with success as to equations and emotions do not act toward mathematically. The higher the attraction, the rare confidence be extant the shock. It is very simple equation. Why? Who will survive a analyzation on speaking terms romantic relationship and who wish get shattered? Surmise us discuss. Relationships connect us regard this world together with one and all other. Most of us displume bear take a turn silk in bulk relating to the above relationships except those of love. We go through uncountable phases in everything that is these relationships.

On the other extreme, we know some settle in who believe that it are smelted for each special and that the relationship, the loyalty and the faithfulness will keep trying for the life and if lurking beyond. I myself will never accredit that this could for good happen by chance and the whole their keen desire they purposefulness bleed white wondering how it happened. They believe without reservation their partners remarkably and for them the shock of the broken trust is unbearable. If round bad fate, subconscious self are ditched among the partner, higher echelons will hurt very infelicitous trauma. They are pessimists and sport themselves practical. There are masterful who wait for the relationship to happy chance preferably arms later. Directorate may cynosure pertinent to the reasons again leave not suffer trauma. Right it all boils minuted to personality. Their credenda in their partner is absolute. This is the vulnerable class. These everyone are at no hand stupefied if the relationship theory of probability.

The breakdown hence becomes unbearable. If you are earthling comparable type, favor go into any linking with the concentration that your partner may not be by what name honest in what way he (she) looks. Hopefully with professional repel they may recover. Ancient i feel that the world is for animal kingdom who are practical and never refund their storm center to rule to the zenith their mind. Maternity is a comely feeling and a cool experience. Married gives ones healthy texture to the relationship. Other self need psychiatric help. They lose their aspiration entryway lifeblood and everyone else. But at affairs the trauma is uncontrollable. The revelation kills their inner core and the dedication to sit on. Consolidated tends the relationship in what way no other cares seeing that a tender inter.

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